The social media generation looks at life with glasses tainted with perfect bodies and envious life. Since the age of an hourglass figure or muscular body has set in, our perceptions of an ideal partner have also radically changed into something more superficial. Even so much that when men are asked what do women really want, most of them believe in tall and muscular characteristics. Men can be so clueless at times! It is rather amusing that women do NOT want a muscular, lean and tall man to be their life partner. A study shows it is completely different from what women seek in men.
A little snuggle or a big bear hug is what most women would vote to have in their man. Even though there are women who would kill to have handsome and perfect men, most women in reality, vouch for something else in a man, and that’s certainly not the looks.
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Kindness over looks: majority of women
In fact, a study by an app, Clue, states that among approximately 60,000 women, a whopping 90 per cent of women desire ‘kindness’ as the most desired trait in their man. This signifies the importance of emotional characteristics over physical ones. If you’re looking for a partner for the longer partnership, it is only fair to be with someone who is equally invested in you emotionally and mentally. Besides having a stable and committed mindset, kindness towards all types of people and emotions is a very attractive quality for women!
Surprisingly, the same study also states that 45 per cent of women prefer men with a little chubbiness or simply the average male body over an extremely muscular one. Many might argue that some do like the latter and so, only 2.5 per cent of women had favoured the lean, muscular type.
This study concludes that men do not need to amp themselves to attract a woman. If they want to build their body and look handsome for their own selves, then so be it. But if it is to attract or impress a woman, men just need to be kind and genuine. At the end of the day, women want someone to take care of them and be all kinds of funny, genuine and heartfelt to them.
Looks won’t get you to be someone’s life partner, but emotions and feelings might
Women loathe men who are full of themselves and only depend on their looks to impress someone. Being genuine and kind about emotions, feelings and spending time is what actually dazzles women! Making out time and keeping promises is so much more attractive. Additionally, how a man treats you and prioritises you is what will matter down the line. Someone to be vulnerable with, and share the darkest secrets and desires and not be judged for it, is what women want. Precisely, a kind heart.
At one point in time, all materialistic things like looks, money, degree etc. will be lesser in priority because nobody wants to spend their life with an overbearing person who is obsessed with all materialistic pleasures in life.
So men, don’t be in a delusion that your kind heart doesn’t matter, because there are plenty of women out there looking for a man whose kindness is his biggest trait.